HI I just got an 03 ex 4wd in black and its in great condition and i would like to insure it stays that way. so are there any do's or dont's as far as cleaners, armour all type product, or waxes. Any interior tips would also be apreciated

Welcome! I'm fairly new here too, and I've learned a LOT from this site. Look at the other threads and posts in this forum to pick up cleaning tips--every question you have is in here somewhere. (Use the search feature if you don't want to read every post) I just gave our E it's first bath this weekend. Based on what I learned here, I used Eagle 1 bucketless wash and Eagle 1 wax-as-u-dry, and meguiars #40 on the interior. The E looks great. Don't use armourall.