i get home early in the morning sometimes and the horn on the element is extremely loud. is there a way to disable to horn beep when the alarm is set? thanks

Don't double tap the lock button on the remote (the double tap gives the confirmation chirp).

oh I thought the first tap was just to lock the doors and the 2nd tap set the alarm

Nope, one tap locks the doors and sets the alarm...
You need to tap twice to unlock all the doors - once for driver door only, second time for all of them.

oh ok.. sweet. just one tap and all is silent.. thanks a bunch everyone