I DO object to the characterization of aftermarket equipment for the Element as "cheapy aftermarket junk". Primary electrical vehicle wiring isn't rocket science or exotic technology. Honda is famous for CYA conservative over-engineering; adequate engineering is being cost-effective, not "cheapy".
Sorry...my bad. I didn't mean all aftermarket stuff is cheap junk. I meant that the "supposedly" cheap junk isn't even availble....so why even bother discussing it.
I make a big deal out of stuff like blanket responses such as "get the aftermarket one...it is fine" when there isn't one designed for the application. Owners of '07 models have recomended the model # they've successfully installed and used to '03 and '06 owners, which just causes confusion.
Many people read these threads (and never post at all) and may not catch the stuff like model year info in a posters profile. (if it is even filled out)
Again, we've been dealing with this confusion since '05, and it gets frustrating saying the same stuff over and over. To make matters worse, many aftermarket suppliers have the wrong information as well.
And again...
I like my draw-tite harness . I'd recomend it to anyone with an '03 or '04 Element. It was $35 or so, about 1/4 the price of the kit from Honda....and besides appearing to be a quality unit, it has worked perfectly for 5 years (5k miles towing/85k non towing). I've used Draw-Tite stuff in my work trucks (more than 100k miles towing)with very good results. I broke 2 factory Dodge hitch recievers, and had the factory wiring go bad on 1 Dodge and a Ford, but no problems with the aftermarket replacements.
Remember, the first '05
Honda trailer harness were recalled due to improper wiring. A few people w/ '03-04 have reported defective "converter units" messing up their turn signals with both Honda and aftermarket harness kits. Hoppy was slightly more likely to have this occur, if my memory is correct. Most of the complaints about U-Haul wiring seems to be from cut and splice installs, not instalkation of aftermarket "plug & ply" wiring kits....but do a search for "U-Haul wiring" and you'll find many people recomending against using U-Haul for the wiring harness. (w/ no mention of the "method.")