I’m a bit confused . . . I have an Element with 65,000 miles on it and I prophylactically replaced the screens recently and there was nothing (I mean NOTHING) in the screens. I am pretty confident that the screens had not been examined previously.
If, as you say, you are having to clean the screens every oil change (and the presumption is that there is something there to clean), then your dilemma is much greater than the question of which weight oil to use.
The fact that you had one oil change interval spanning 4,600 miles should be of zero concern. Now, if you did that oil change and had not checked your oil in that 4,600 miles, and you drained out far less than should have drained out, then that should be a concern.
Odds are this engine has not been maintained for a long time and you are now reaping the benefits of poor maintenance.
You need to tell us the full story. Are you the original owner? Do you know this car’s complete maintenance history?
Simply changing the weight of your oil is not going to solve your problem, it’s simply going to allow you to ignore it for some unknown number of miles. Whatever damage is done, is done, and changing the weight of the oil is not going to “fix” the real problem.
That said, if increasing the weight of the oil allows you to drive the car, trouble-free, for another 50,000 miles, then that is your best option--much better than having to rebuild the engine. But that assumes that, in the future, you maintain the car with a quality oil on a regular basis.
Best of luck.