Hi all, i have the 4wd (EX Blue).
I really normall would not care one way or the other about 2wd or 4wd. I always had front wheel drive sporty cars, which tend to do a lot better in the ice and snow then the 4wd vehicles (or perhaps it is operator error on their side).. so I really was not concerned.
I did want the sunroof (since my old prelude and integra had them, i love them) kinda is a must have for me. Sure it is in the back, but I plan to do some camping in this critter. I also got the screen for the sunroof which with the sunroof popper of removed will be a nice heat vent system for the horrible heat we get here!
I also liked some of the other little things you get with the EX 4WD that you don't get otherwise, sooo i figured what the heck, not a huge price difference and the gas economy does not differ too much either.
NOW all that said, and that I have driven around in front wheel drive cars, we all so have a normal pick up with an off road package (with out 4wd). So I have a nice level to gauge with. I drove around some of the steep windy hills north of where I am. They wind they go up and down, great roads I love them!. I was really impressed how the 4wd does work, it really gripped the road beautifully and semed in its ELEMENT on theses roads.
Now I am not an "off roader" nor is that my intention with this vehicle, but I like that it has a nice versatile nature and the driving is just awesome.. So I am definately not disappointed I chose the 4wd!