Need help with my 2009 Element SE. I'm installing the OEM fog lights and have read here on the forms that the three pin conector I'm looking for is behind the sub woofer panel(step #33 in instructions). I have removed the pins on each side of the panel but I still can't get it to move out of the way. What else am I missing? This SE model seems to be a little differant than what I have seen on the forums. Thanks for any help in advance.